Welcome to my Inner Ramblings!

First off, THANK YOU for coming to my blog and showing me support, this has been in the works for the last 6 months and I am so excited to share with you whats been going on with me while I continue my mental and physical recovery from my prophylactic double Mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. I’ll be posting about my experience Pre & Post-Op, dating after a double mastectomy, Fashion & Styling tips, how to throw the Best “Boob-voyage” Party, Coping Strategies, Support groups, Recovery Tips & Tricks and I will have Video interviews with Previvor’s, Family Members, Friends and Men on what it’s like knowing and being affected by someone with the BRCA Gene Mutation. I hope you will find my blog to be helpful and most importantly, a good laugh on a crappy day, as laughing is truly the one thing to get me through!

Thanks again for your support and interest, I am so stoked to share my inner gossip from the last year, and parents, be warned, there will be some R rated graphics as well as conversation on my blog….so leave now if you don’t want to know!!!

16 thoughts on “Home

  1. Phyllis Kupser February 21, 2017 / 2:05 am

    Dear Hayley. I am so sorry to hear that you are going threw hell again. You are the bravest and
    strongest breast cancer patient or for that matter any cancer patient I know. Your memory on
    recalling all those medical terms is impeccable. When you get the results of your ultra sound,
    listen to your Doctor, and go by what you gut tells. You seemed to be a very good judge at that.
    Again I am so sorry and good luck. If you have forgotten, I am Danniell’s Aunt, her Mother’s sister
    from Kelowna. Take care, Love and Kisses xxooxxoo. Phyllis Kupser.

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  2. Jan "Mom" February 17, 2017 / 2:59 am

    Proud of the fact that you are “Going The Distance” to share your experience.

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  3. Danielle February 4, 2017 / 6:24 am

    Hayley I went to Jr High with you and I always thought of you as the tough one that never took sh*t from no one. So if anyone was gonna beat cancers (or attempt of it) a$$ it definitely was gonna be you. Have personally experienced Cancer with my dad and its not easy being on the outside so glad to see your doing well after your surgery and Thank you for helping bring Awareness to others. Fight on girl!

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    • Birdy February 4, 2017 / 6:54 pm

      Thanks for your support girl, it really means a lot to me! Hope you’re doing well


  4. Lee-Ann Wells January 10, 2017 / 11:31 pm

    Hayley, I have one word for you… Perseverance. That’s you!!! Through it all, before and after the gene, you’ve been kickin’ @$$ and takin’ names!!! You’re my SHero!! Thank you for raising awareness & sharing yourself with the world! We may not be blood, but you’ll always be my sister and I love you to the moon and back. Stay beautiful 💋


    • Birdy January 11, 2017 / 8:39 pm

      Lanners, I love you to pieces. Thank you for always being an advocate for love life and laughter. You truly are a sisters to me and I appreciate you, and Chris, more than words could ever express. ❤


  5. Glennis Lewis January 10, 2017 / 2:29 pm

    I have had family members go through different types of CA so my heart and prayers go your way. I am Christopher’so grandma.


    • Birdy January 11, 2017 / 8:38 pm

      Grandma Glennis, I am so sorry to hear about you’re family members. Cancer is never easily, no matter the stage, type or size. I hope your family is healthy now and if they fought theyre battles and have made their peace, I know they are resting peacefully without pain. Thank you for your prayers, sending love your way!


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